Social desirability bias: definition and example
Social desirability bias is the tendency to answer questions in a way that makes you look good, such as overstating patience or understating irritation. It can be deliberate or almost automatic, and it is one of the best-known reasons self-report questionnaires drift from real behavior.
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Where the idea comes from
Crowne and Marlowe introduced a social desirability scale in 1960 to address a known problem: personality test scores can be swayed by response tendencies unrelated to what the test is trying to measure (Crowne and Marlowe, 1960). Their scale included statements that are flattering but rarely true of anyone, so agreeing with many of them hints at a tendency to present well.
An EQ example
An item reads, "I never lose my temper with people I love." Few people could honestly agree. Someone who wants to be a calm parent may still choose "Often" because the honest answer, "Sometimes I yell at bedtime," feels like a failure. The answer reflects their values more than their evenings.
Why it is not simply lying
Most people who answer in a flattering direction are not deliberately deceiving anyone. They may be describing who they try to be, or remembering their best days. Seeing it as a normal pull, rather than a moral failing, makes it easier to notice and correct in your own answers.
How to reduce it in your own answers
Picture a specific recent week rather than your best self. Answer for the situation that is hardest for you, not the easiest. Remember that a lower, honest answer is more useful for reflection than a flattering one, because it points at something you can practice.
Test designers also counter the bias with scenario items, where the best choice is less obvious; see situational judgment tests. The broader issue is covered under self-report bias.
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Research notes
- D. P. Crowne, D. Marlowe (1960). A new scale of social desirability independent of psychopathology. Journal of Consulting Psychology. Introduces a social desirability scale designed to be independent of psychopathology content, addressing the problem that personality test scores are influenced by response tendencies unrelated to what the test measures. pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/13813058/
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- No. 01EQ glossaryThe words behind emotional intelligence, defined.
- No. 02Self-report biasSelf-report bias is the general problem that people's descriptions of themselves can differ from how they actually think, feel, or behave, because of limited insight, memory, mood, or the wish to look good.
- No. 03Trait EITrait emotional intelligence (trait EI) is a set of emotion-related self-perceptions and dispositions: how you see your own ability to notice, express, and manage feelings.
- No. 04Situational judgment testA situational judgment test (SJT) presents realistic scenarios and asks you to choose or rate possible responses, which are then scored against a key.
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